26.12.2008
I went to Glasgow for a trip with my friends… Sampai² je kat prestwick airport.. took a bus.. sbb time tuh train sume tak le sampai glasgow central.. then wait for my friend, inas, there..
Tgh² aku tunggu inas nih nak pick-up.. aku nampak la segerombolan wanita melayu ayu bertudung litup menutupi dada 
.. mule² aku cam segan la nak tego.. ye la.. muke masing-masing cam cerah bercahaya di suluhi cahaye keimanan.. aku plak cam 
.. then i was thinking.. it will be bad of me if i not say salam to them.. ye la berape kerat je melayu kat glasgow tuh kan.. takkan nak wat kepale sombong kat ctu.. so niat di hati nih mmg nak tego secare ikhlas.. so I walked slowly to them then said Salam…
*suddenly my good purpose was like turn 180° into the what the fork feeling*
why? After I gave Salam to them.. they were like ignoring my salam.. I was like 
.. ‘oo ok.. maybe the don’t hear me enough’ so I gave my second Salam.. but still same things happen.. cume kali ni ade sorang pmpn nih.. n i forgot her name oledi 
hahaha.. macam bergerak2 tak selese, resah, gelisah etc.. maybe sbb die cam nak jawab salam aku.. tp frens die cam tak jawab so die pun cam teragak-agak nak jawab.. maybe la kan.. then I gave my 3rd salam.. and if they still insist not to answer it.. its ok.. its ur sins now.. .. then that gelisah girl answered me.. owh ok she is not deaf.. thanks Allah.. at least she used her ears to the fullest.. not like others.. playing deaf..
Then we started talking.. ask from where and everythings.. and I knew from her, they had an assembly.. Perhimpunan Musim Sejuk.. untuk ‘muslimah-muslimah’ yang makan di pinggan, minum di cawan.. then one of her friend came and join us too.. thank God.. we still got ‘un-deaf’ girl.. so we were like talking about 20 minutes and the others were still like ignoring us here.. in the middle of the conversation, i noticed some girls like wat muke mencebik towards me 
.. na ja, egal.. dein gesicht! nicht mein! kamon… aku tak de mase kot nak ngorat korang… aku cume tak nak jadi org yg sombong tak bertempat.. screw you! 
then she and her friend (girls yg ckp berbual ngan aku tadi) asked for a leave.. bcos their bus will depart in about 10 minutes time.. so i said gudbye n salam to all of them.. guess wut? only that 2 girls yg cam jawab n senyum pergi (sejhuk ati ) and the others cam amik beg n beredar pergi.. ala tak mo jawab pun tak pe la.. senyum ok gak.. nih wat muke ketat cam ko saiz XL bli baju saiz xs..
*at this very point of time, i was thinking perempuan ayu bertudung labuh menutup dada is not perfect after all in Islam.. so they still have my 50% of my believe dat they are still good in religion.. thanks to the ‘un-deaf’ girls..*
then ade lagi 6 beg ngan 2 org gadis ayu bertudung labuh menutup dada.. sbb tgu friends kot.. takkan 2 org pmpn bawak 6 beg besa .. komisch~ then I stood there and waiting for inas finishing his shopping… that 2 girls sat on the bench politely.. kalo bule bersimpuh atas kusi tuh.. bule kot die bersimpuh.. after several minutes.. this two girls came to me and asked to watch their belongings.. and then went away .. I stood there terperanjat 
.. WUT THE FISH?! ko dah la tak ckp ape2 ngan aku.. even ko tak bg salam pun kat aku.. nak borak ape tah lagi.. then dtg tibe2 mintak jage beg.. wa panas da time tuh 
.. da la pakai baju tebal nih.. berkuap dah dlm tuh menahan api kemarahan syaitan.. then I said OK sorang².. takpe lah org melayu kite gak kan.. kang tak jage kang.. kene hambur pulak.. so aku berdiri la kat ctu jadi pak pacak tgu dieorg.. nasib baik glasgow sejuk.. kalo tak tak capai tahap equilibrium aa kemarahan aku nih .. then dieorg datang balik said thanks tanpa senyuman.. i was like.. ‘ok kewl~~’.. then their friends came.. 4 of them i think.. tah tak ingat.. nasib baik ade sorang akak nih said hai kat aku.. then tye² ckek.. yg len duk sibuk2 nak pikul beg dieorg.. time tuh kalo one of them mintak aku angkat beg.. mmg aku tunjuk middle finger jer.. bukan tak gentleman.. shit always happen hahahaha…
Dalam kesibukan dieorang nak berangkat tuh inas dtg ngan lengang-lenguknye.. woahahaha..
*okey inas saksi*
Inas said salam to them also.. but you can guess rite what happen next.. .. then Inas took me to a restaurant and had our dinner there.. kewl Malaysian-chinese restaurant.. foods-not bad at all.. delicious and reasonable price..
summary of my story:
Dont judge a woman by kelabuhan tudung mereke.. tak semesti nyer mereke pakai tudung labuh lutut pun akan menjawab salam yg mane.. memberi salam tuh sunat.. menjawab tuh wajib.. i wonder.. did they learn this thing in their perhimpunan?? not~~ maybe just a vacation je kot… and I dont know what they were thinking of me.. tried to seduce them.. rape them?? takkan bertye pun tak le kan.. bukan nyer aku berborak ngan ko sambil rabe² .. kalo la girls nih bpegang teguh kat pendapat suare tuh aurat and cannot talk to boys.. tapi pelik kan.. takkan korang tak penah encounter org laki yg bukan mahram korang.. diskusion ke kan.. sure ade kan hehe.. hurm :?:.. komisch~~
Inas said dieorg nih perasan cantek kot woahahaha.. and I told this story to Dayah (dayah = girl).. and then she mengerutkan dahi die… and ckp tak patut kot girls tuh wat cam tuh.. sori dayah.. cerite aku membuat kan muke ko berkedut lebih awal woahahahaha…
So.. end of story.. (lame dah tulis mende nih.. tak publish je).. after this want to continue my story about our trip around scotland..
*owh btw… the girls are studying in dublin, ireland… maybe if one off you read this and somehow you feel WUT THE FOOT?! or uncomfortable.. i’m sorry.. truth hurts 
.. this is just my opinion.. call me woahahaha*
14/02/2009 at 12:14 am Permalink
haha….aku setuju…as the saying goes “don’t judge a book by its cover”, memang pompuan2 muslimah yg kite jumpe hari tu cam sombong tahap cipan…brani dier nk sombong ngan abang kawasan…haih~ patut suruh dayah
starlight 
ckek sekor2…baru tau~
14/02/2009 at 12:03 pm Permalink
haha…cite da menarik…tp 1st impression aku..ingtkn dak2 bertudung labuh tu..dtg pms aka pre-menstrual syndrome mase ko approach tu..maybe gk tu sbb dieorg x jwb salam..logik ke..haha
14/02/2009 at 8:38 pm Permalink
Aisyah berkata, “Aku bertanya kepada Rasulullah, siapakah yang lebih besar haknya terhadap wanita? Jawab Rasulullah, “Suaminya.
15/02/2009 at 2:50 pm Permalink
haha… ingtkn ko tulis psal PMS ape td. tp start baca 1st line dah tau dh. huhu…
ntah ah wei, mende ni ko dh dgr aku ckp kot kn. tp juz nk ckp gak. bg aku, nk jaga pun, at least treat la org baik2 la kot. as human beings, kte mesti ah kne treat people with respect. as Muslims, we should know this la kn. basic stuff.
n comment atas tu yg ckp psal suami je ade hak yg besar kt wanita. yes, mmg btul. tp org 2 bknnye mntak buat ape pun. tgur je pun kn.
and if they(meaning the girls td) btul2 pegang mende ni as sebab nape xnk layan, then why laa dorg sruh JAGA beg dorg. itu boleh plak…?
masing2 xde hak on each other. ko dah xnak buat baik kt org 2, jgn ah ask for a favour from them.
tp pe2 pun buchuk, aku baru belajar smlm jugak, utk mengelak dari rsa marah atau xpuas ati ngan org, ble kte buat baik 2, niatkn ntuk Allah, don’t hope for anything nice in return from the person ko buat baik 2. sbb slalu manusia ni xreti nk hargai org. so, ble ko dh niat cam2, xde ah sakit ati kn ble dah jd mcm ko 2. walaupun susah ntuk xsakit ati. huhu…
juz my thoughts though…(pjg glee.. itulah akibat dah lma xupdate blog) lol.
15/02/2009 at 3:16 pm Permalink
15/02/2009 at 4:31 pm Permalink
setuju ngan cakap dayah…islam ni kan mudah, kok ye pun kitorg lelaki2 strangers tidak berhak kat diorg, tp bile bab mintak jage beg, ade plak hak2 wanita2 muslimah nih….tegur je pun, bukan nak ajak romen2…cam sengal je pompuan2 gini…lagipun , they’re not even in msia pun mase tuh, so bile ade lelaki melayu muslim dtg tegur dgn niat yg baik, tegurlah balik…jadi adat warm n friendly msians kan kalo jumpe kat foreign places nih…haih….
*gi amik wuduk jap, sbb hati sudah panas*
well, aku xsurprise kalo jumpe org yg camni, sbb ade yg lagi warak aku rase penampilannnye, lagi busuk perangainye-siap jaja kisah org dlm usrah, pastu gi buruk2 kan org kat org lain, kalo camtuh, bukan usrah la kot namenye, itu sesi mengumpat…so kepada yg rajin berusrah tu especially ladies, sila la jage kualiti usrah korg…elok2 mende tu dpt pahala, langsung xdpt ape pun sbb ngumpat nyer pasal..haha~
-org jahil agama-
15/02/2009 at 10:53 pm Permalink
setahu aku..takde nas la kate takle bg salam kt pompuan yg bkn bini korang kan..tp la kan..asal de sorang jawab pn da cukup bg kumpulan..klu bg salam kepada kumpulan , yg wajib sape2 dlm tu je jawab…ni aku blaja dl2 ler..zaman2 aku tak rock lg..haha
15/02/2009 at 11:28 pm Permalink
@messanger: saudara/saudari.. time kase kerana memberripendapat.. tp sile hurai kan.. dop paham sgt.. sy org jahil agame ckek.. sies.. *bukan perli*
@dayah & inas: behave ok korang due org.. hahaha.. sile jgn ikut kan perasaan.. *aku tak pe plak kan??
* pasni dayah ko pun leh share kan mende2 yg ko blaja kat usrah *skali lagi bukan perli*
@ dayah sang wira @ wany: tuh la akibat kalo dayah start bersuare.. kalo bule kat comment nih bule jadi post lagi satu woahahaha…
@creelizard: time kase kerane share kan pendapat anda.. btul2.. aku baru tau gak kalo dalam satu kumpulan sorang jawab pun suda.. kalo nak sume jawab serentak kang mau riuh plak kan woahaha tak pun kalo nak tgu sorang2 jawab pongeh jugak..
16/02/2009 at 10:10 pm Permalink
hanya 2 sen dari saya,
1. bebaskan minda sebelum membuat sebarang pendapat yang menyeluruh terhadap sesuatu kumpulan i.e pendapat 50% itu bagus
2. agree to disagree i.e walaupun sama sama warganegara malaysia mungkin kerana sudah terlalu lama di luar negara maka penerimaan budaya salam dilihat dari segi perspektif yang berbeza
3. mungkin hadis yang dikemukakan perlu dijelaskan dengan lebih mendalam terutamanya maksud hak
4. sememangnya anda bebas untuk memilih cara untuk berdakwah, akan tetapi mungkin strategi yang lebih bijak perlu difikirkan demi memastikan keberkesanannya tanpa perlu mengabaikan prinsip walaupun dalam berdakwah apa yang dititikberatkan adalah usaha berbanding hasil
akhir kata, lihatlah islam itu pada agamanya, sungguh cantik dan indah!
17/02/2009 at 1:20 pm Permalink
Aku pon ble first baca PMS ni..ingat PMS yg lagi satu..anyway..
Hmm..tu aa pasal..mungkin diorang pemalu buch..haha..or mungkin diorg mmg ingat ko nak ngorat diorg (ni mmg tak ley blah aa)..hahaha..tp yg pastinya salah jugak laa bila diorang tak jawab salam tu..yelaa..kita sama2 Islam di bumi asing ni takkan nak menyombong plak..pastu siap mintak tolong plak tu..mak aku ckp kalo nak mintak tlg kene baik2 ngan org dulu..tapi kalo btol2 malu tu tak bleh laa nak ckp pe kan..aku pon pemalu gak..ngeh ngeh ngeh..
Benda2 mcm nilaa yg boleh jd fitnah pada Islam ni..bila org da mula generalisekan ” tak semestinya bertudung labuh akan menjawab salam”..mmg tak semua org gtu..tp macam biasalaa..yg org plg ingat ialah benda2 yg tak elok yg kita buat..aaa..Yg bg hadith tu..tak taulaa nak ckp ape..bila tak bg penjelasan lanjut macam tak relevan pulak hadith tu kat cni..
“sbb ade yg lagi warak aku rase penampilannnye, lagi busuk perangainye” dan “org2 alim mmg ska wat prangai cmtu”<- statement2 ni aku rs sgt tak adil dan aku cukup marah bila org buat statement gni..siap ada pndgn buruk pasal usrah plak tu..mengumpat dlm usrah??agak2 aa kot..skali lg ditekankan, jgn generalisekan statement anda..aku rasa warak tak warak tu antara dia ngan Allah..point yg penulis statement ni perlu tekankan sepatutnya perangai kita, yg takde kena mengena dgn cara pemakaian atau kewarakan pon..yelaa sape kita nak judge org, tp bila nak judge jugak, judge laa seadilnya..
Maka muslimat2 di luar sana..tlg laa jaga akhlak korang..sbb dgn pakai tudung saja kita da bwk imej Islam..apatah lg kelakuan kita..jgn ada perasaan “sukati aku laa nak buat ape..hak aku..” jgn jd fitnah pada agama kita..
aku lak terpms lam blog ko buch..aku takde blog so kenelaa tulis pjg ckek tak..hahaha..
18/02/2009 at 2:51 am Permalink
salam wbt bro buchuk (although i hardly know you in the first place. huhu). jangan x jawab salam ni. huhu..
ntah mengapa rasa tertarik nak komen. hmmm.. i used to have this bad perceptions on those types of people. i have a brother (who happens to study in ireland!) cakap “aku x faham laa budak2 prmpuan mcm ni, padahal kawan lama, tapi lalu sebelah macam laa tak kenal”.
i tried not to jump into any conclusion. “kenapa eh diorg mcm tu?” i asked my bro. and he said “biase lah, budak2 usrah mcm tu kot”. i kept silent (because I do go to usrah jugak, takde laa jalan tunduk kepala sentiasa. huhu..)
as time goes by, i sort of (not fully) understand why they behave that way. they learn about Islam, and they try to practice what they’ve learnt. They must have their own good reasons (eg: hadith or ayat quran - “Katakanlah kepada orang laki-laki yang beriman: “”Hendaklah mereka menahan pandangannya, dan memelihara kemaluannya; yang demikian itu adalah lebih suci bagi mereka, sesungguhnya Allah Maha Mengetahui apa yang mereka perbuat”" - surah An-Nur, ayat 30). Sometimes its difficult to meet other people’s expectations kan?
Of course, I’m not denying that Islam teaches us to be nice to other people as well, but probably those girls couldn’t find any good reason to jawab salam from strangers (regardless of your nationality). mungkin jawab dlm hati? or they thought the situation was unnecessary. or they were probably restraining themselves from apa-apa fitnah yang kita tak nampak. MUNGKIN! Wallahua’lam. Saya bukan mereka, saya x bleh nak ckp apa2. huhu..
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not pro any side. I myself sometimes am allergic to people who behave inappropriately (like in your case, tanak cakap/tegur tapi mintak tolong. like, hello?
). But I like to be fair. I don’t like to hate other people 
(call me an idealist or poyo. x kisah je. haha..).
I second what dayah yang berkerut said: whatever u do/say, do it for the sake of Allah. If you say they are bad, that doesnt make u any better. In fact, that makes you just as bad as them (mungkin nak jadikan pengajaran, tapi kadang2 kita x perasan yg kata2 kita mungkin akan mengaibkan orang lain.). Or perhaps we could improve the way we use our words, kalau boleh elakkan daripada unsur-unsur yang sinis. Kalau betul-betul ikhlas nak tegur, insyaAllah penggunaan kata-kata yg proper boleh menyentuh perasaan. Mcm belajar sastera la pulok, ye dok? Ingat ni sonnet 18 ke
haha..
In conclusion, ALL OF US need to learn more about Islam (before telling other people about Islam which we hardly understand in the first place) and correct each other for the better. Don’t talk bad things about people behind their backs (at least not to kutuk, bagi pengajaran boleh la kot. eh, ntah? Saya bukan ustazah, x tahu pulak. huhu..). And do it for Allah’s sake
I didn’t say you are wrong tau bro buchuk. I’m sure you are still trying to learn about Islam as well 
There’s always a way.
Good luck!
p/s: believe it or not, I’m actually learning something from this article! banyak pahala encik buchuk dalam memberi kesedaran dalam diri ini. huhu.. terima kasih daun keladi
18/02/2009 at 3:06 am Permalink
senang cite ko xyah tegur la sape2!!
cantik sgt ke kau utk ditegur tuuuhhhhhh
buat2 x nmpk sudaaaaaa
gwe kalo g jln ni x kuasa nk tegur org msia ke org ape ke..
mind ur own business..
yg korg siqah sgt nk menegur ni apehal..
dga nasihat mak ye..
JGN GATAL2 GI TEGUR SAPE2
tah2 pontianak
or lagenda anak betong tuuhhhh
kena ngaappp ha salam ko tah ke mana dgn ko2 tah kemana
18/02/2009 at 3:42 am Permalink
@deynarashid: w’salam wbt… thanks weh bg opinion ko.. sgt berbesa hati.. yup ko mmg ade point kat ctu.. so i’m learning something from u.. it’s ok.. better kalo share pemikiran kan.. sbb pemikiran aku bukan nyer same ngan pemikiran saudari ato pemikiran org lain.. thanks 4 da hadith.. aku pun tak de ape yg nak di debate kan.. sbb aku pun tgh belaja lagi hehe.. sbb mende nih take time.. n care penyampaian tuh.. i just to be myself.. maybe soon or later it will change.. hehe.. thanx
@cipun: behave okey dear… control your emotion hehe.. i know you are protective.. thanx..
18/02/2009 at 9:27 pm Permalink
cuk…tumpang gelak buleh??
xbuleh pon..nk gelak jugak…harharharharharun…
19/02/2009 at 6:57 pm Permalink
abih aa mu weh. ramai aa orang pas-pas link nih. oleh sebab mu ske buat kontroversi & cerita2 hangat, visits pon banyok, ape kate taruk adsense. duit pon dapat.
23/02/2009 at 3:45 am Permalink
aku owk, kalo jadi perempuan, tibe2 ade mamat nigger mari bagi salam, pastu buleh cakap melayu, suspicious jugak selo2. jawab salam dalam hati je.
25/02/2009 at 12:00 am Permalink
@cipeng: pergh men kasa cipeng… fine
@abe: tu la pasal… ahahaha takpe2.. pasni aku bukok photoblog cam mu jugop… haha
@paeh : adui die nih.. masalah sgh!
08/03/2009 at 3:49 pm Permalink
Assalamualaikum,
Mmg macam tu, x semestinya tudung labuh kene perfect 100%. bak kata omputeh don’t judge the book by its cover.
Lagipun pd pendapat aku, ramai student2 melayu (baik tudung labuh ke,free hair ke,laki ke pompuan ke) kt oversea (bukan semua,tp sesetengah..aku sndr pun salah satu drpd kelompok ni) mmg agak sombong. Mgkn diorang view org2 melayu yg diorang x kenal setaraf dgn local strangers yg mmg confirm xkan ditegur kalau xde urusan. x tau la.tp yg sampai tahap x jawab salam tu melampau la. sama la, masa kt Berlin ngan Prague hr tu ada terserempak dgn bdk2 melayu, tp diorang awkward lak nak jawab salam. aku macam, pegi mampuslah, itu urusan kau ngan Tuhan la xnak jawab
.
08/03/2009 at 3:50 pm Permalink
aaaah ich glaube es nicht!!